Judy Heumann embodied cross-disability solidarity throughout her life, beginning with her time at Camp Jened, a summer camp for disabled teenagers. She created life-long friendships with other disabled folks that formed the foundation of their organizing work for the passage of the ADA.
Cross-disability friendship is a powerful bond. It is a love that insists we can and must work miracles for each other, that expands what we believe ourselves to be capable of.
In the disability community, grief is an all too frequent companion. Too many disabled friends have died prematurely. We are not strangers to the task of continuing legacies.
Almost exactly a year before the pandemic began, I sat with my best friend, Rabbi Emet Tauber, as he passed away from complications of Ehlers Danlos Syndrome. He was 24. [continue reading…]